By tradition, engagement and wedding rings are placed on the fourth finger of the left hand. Counting on possibly mixing the customs at various stages can lead to a bit of confusion.
Historical Significance of the Ring Finger
Ancient Romans selected this finger due to the (erroneous) belief that it contained a vein running straight to the heart. Named the Vena Amoris or “Vein of Love,” this symbolic connection continues despite being proven false.
In Rome, rings symbolized constancy and completeness, representing true love. However, not all countries follow the left-hand rule. In nations like Russia and Greece, the engagement ring often adorns the right hand, yet Catholic couples, accepting the symbolism of the fourth finger, typically wear their rings on the left hand’s fourth finger.
Understanding the Concept of Engagement
Globally, engagement signifies a formal promise to marry. The ring stands as a testament to this promise, akin to signing a contract. Dating back 5,000 years with wedding rings, the engagement ring became popular later, pioneered by the Archduke of Austria in the fifteenth century. Traditionally worn by women, engagement rings for men have gained traction, thanks to figures like Ed Sheeran and the legalization of same-sex marriage.
Wearing the Engagement Ring and Wedding Band
While the wedding ring is generally worn on the same finger as the engagement ring, the rings may shift due to different circumstances. Here’s a concise guide on how to wear them:
Post-Engagement, Pre-Wedding
Upon engagement, the ring is a symbol of a marital promise, worn on the fourth finger of the left hand by both men and women.
During the Wedding Ceremony
On the wedding day, brides often wear the engagement ring on the right hand to allow the groom to easily place the wedding band on the left hand’s fourth finger. Artful Bracelets provides matching wedding bands for all engagement rings through our matching band finder.
After the Wedding
After the ceremony, most brides move their engagement ring back to the left hand’s fourth finger, stacking it atop the wedding ring. (Remember not to sleep with your rings on to avoid swelling.) This traditional practice, though common, is subject to personal adjustment.
Creative Approaches to Wearing Your Rings
Modern couples often reinterpret traditions. Women might choose innovative ways to wear their rings, demonstrating unique expressions of love:
- Possessing the rings on their right hand
- Placing the engagement ring nearer to the heart
- Combining the engagement and wedding rings into one piece
- Wearing the engagement ring only on special occasions
- Layering rings with an accent white diamond band
What About Promise Rings?
Distinct from engagement rings, promise rings symbolize love or exclusivity but nowadays don’t necessarily imply a subsequent engagement.
Where to Wear a Promise Ring
The finger for a promise ring is a matter of personal choice. Some opt for the left hand’s fourth finger to mirror engagement rings, while others choose different fingers to stave off engagement assumptions.
While these traditions are common in the United States, they aren’t rigid rules. Couples can tailor their ring choices and placements to reflect their unique relationships. Hence, some may opt for only a wedding band, while others buy a complete set of rings. Whether on the right or left hand, the ring’s placement is entirely up to the couple, introducing a delightful uniqueness to a simple action.
